I'll tell her about a girl who loved her family very much, and when bad things happened to them she did not give up. She went out and learned every new skill she could, and made herself tough.

I have to be careful, though. I knew a man who lost his family, as it was betrayed by his allies. He was a good man, but his revenge ended up putting the new people he met that could have been his family in danger.

I don't want her to die like he did. But I want her to know that there was a girl out there who never gave up.